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Couples Counselling and Therapy in Calgary

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We use proven relationship science, and powerful tools of couples therapy to teach you practical strategies to help you thrive in your relationship in Calgary.
We specialize in teaching couples how to communicate better, resolve old conflicts and reconnect with one another.

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What is Couples Counselling?

Couples counselling is a type of therapy specifically focused on helping partners navigate and resolve conflicts, fostering stronger, healthier relationships. It’s a valuable service for those who have not yet learned the best tools to maintain a healthy relationship and are dealing with a strong disconnect with their partners. At One Life, we approach couples counselling in Calgary as a way to teach our clients the skills they need to have the best relationship possible. Our aim is to bridge gaps, facilitate understanding, and strengthen bonds, empowering each couple to achieve a fulfilling relationship.

What to Expect from Couples Counselling

When you attend couples counselling, it is meant to be a transformative experience for both you and your partner. Our process begins with a thorough assessment of each couple’s unique needs, allowing us to tailor our approach. We then introduce a structured framework of exercises, interventions, and communication tools, all carefully designed to address specific challenges. Our goal is to provide a transparent roadmap, giving each couple clarity on the journey ahead and instilling confidence in the tools they’ll gain for long-term relationship success.

Our Approach to Couples Counselling

Selecting a relationship counsellor in Calgary can be a challenging decision, especially as many couples opt to keep their own experiences with counselling private. When you choose One Life, we aim to help you both start on the right foot, whether you’re new to dating or have been together for many years. For those balancing hectic schedules, we also provide online sessions, ensuring access to care remains convenient. 

  • Evidence-Based Techniques: You and your partner are welcome to determine which therapeutic approach might be best for your relationship. If you need support in this area, our intake coordinator can help with this assessment and provide recommendations to the therapist that aligns with the desired approach. This may include the Gottman Method, an approach grounded in research-based techniques that foster intimacy and address relationship dynamics, or Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which emphasizes reshaping emotional responses to nurture a secure bond.
  • Personalized Therapy Plans: Every couple is different. Rather than trying to force your relationship into a box, we customize a therapy plan that takes into account communication styles, goals, and your immediate and unique needs. 
  • Experienced Therapists: At One Life, all of our couples psychologists have training in one or more specialized treatment models, each of which focuses on bringing a couple's health back into reality. In addition, each of our team members undergoes specialized training to accurately support the varied needs of couples before they begin offering services in this area.

Couples Therapy with One Life:

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Step 1: Discovery Phase

In the initial phase, we work with you to envision a successful, fulfilling relationship. Together, we identify the behavioural patterns contributing to disconnection, setting the foundation for a deeper understanding of each partner’s needs and experiences.

Step 2: Defining Agreements

This stage involves establishing shared agreements on the steps each partner can take to nurture a healthier relationship. By aligning on these mutual commitments, couples set a framework for lasting change.
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Step 3: Skill-Building and Practice

The core of our work focuses on skill-building, where we teach effective communication techniques and offer constructive feedback. This practice phase allows each partner to integrate these skills in ways that strengthen connection and empathy.

Step 4: Commitment to Personal Growth

In the final step, we emphasize the importance of personal accountability. Regardless of external circumstances, this commitment phase invites each individual to focus on self-improvement, empowering personal growth within the relationship.
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  • Communication tools
  • Infidelity & affairs
  • Re-building trust
  • Roommate energy
  • Challenges with children, parents and in-laws
  • Conflicting visions and values for the relationship
  • Differing work-life balances
  • Financial
  • Never-ending repetitive arguments
  • Blended Families

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  • Workplace
  • Rebuilding after separation and divorce
  • Dating
  • Co-dependence
  • Communication tools
  • Anger/emotional regulation
  • Addiction and co-dependence
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Re-building trust
after an affair

  • Learn how to re-build the trust in your relationship
  • Learn to do the right actions in the aftermath
  • Process the information the right way
  • Learn new communication tools
  • How to break the obsessive thoughts that often come after a disclosure
  • Learn how to have reassuring conversations
  • Develop greater meaning in your relationship
  • Healing conversations are needed
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Benefits of Couples Counselling

When you begin couples therapy with One Life, we teach you that counselling is a major benefit to your overall well-being. That’s because we know that happy and successful relationships translate to great overall satisfaction in our lives.

Improved Communication

Couples counselling is highly effective in enhancing communication skills between partners, which is often at the root of many relationship challenges. Through guided exercises and structured dialogue, our counselling sessions help partners articulate their thoughts and emotions clearly and respectfully, fostering understanding and empathy.

Constructive Conflict Resolution

Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but how couples handle it can make a significant difference. Our couples counselling sessions in Calgary provide tools and techniques to resolve conflicts constructively, empowering couples to handle conflicts in ways that reinforce rather than undermine their bond.

Rebuilding Trust

Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship, and when it’s damaged, rebuilding it can be a challenge. With targeted strategies for restoring trust, particularly following issues like infidelity, our counsellors ensure open and honest conversations to better understand gaps and where bridges to trust need to be built.

Emotional Support

One Life counsellors provide a valuable space for partners to give and receive emotional support. With expert guidance, we help strengthen this essential facet of the relationship, allowing partners to feel heard, valued, and emotionally secure.

Common Issues Addressed in Couples Counselling

  1. Communication Problems Breakdown in communication is among the most common challenges couples face, often leading to cycles of misunderstanding and frustration. In counselling, we explore the barriers that hinder effective communication and work on building listening skills and reframing responses. Through this approach, partners can move away from accusatory language toward clearer, more compassionate dialogue.
  2. Infidelity and Trust Issues Addressing infidelity and trust issues requires a careful, structured approach. In our sessions, we create a space for open dialogue, enabling partners to explore the root causes of these breaches of trust. By fostering mutual understanding, we lay the groundwork for the difficult but essential steps needed to rebuild a foundation of trust.
  3. Financial Stress Financial stress can put a significant strain on relationships, and differing approaches to money management often lead to conflict. Couples counselling provides strategies for managing financial disagreements constructively through honest conversations, careful planning and budgeting, and defining financial goals and roles as necessary.
  4. Parenting Challenges Being a parent is a gift, but differing parenting styles can spark tension when partners’ values or approaches to discipline diverge. We provide tools and guidance to help couples find common ground and develop a unified approach, supporting a harmonious family environment and reinforcing a shared parenting vision.
  5. Intimacy Issues Issues around intimacy can impact both emotional and physical closeness in a relationship. In counselling, we offer a safe, open environment to discuss these sensitive topics, allowing couples to identify and address barriers to connection. Together, we work toward rekindling intimacy and rebuilding the bond that sustains a fulfilling partnership.

Frequently Asked Questions

How much does couples counselling cost?

Couples sessions are $330 + GST and last for 90 minutes. We recommend these sessions for at least your first 4 to 6 appointments to get to the deep and meaningful needs of your relationship. We also offer maintenance sessions at $220 + GST for 60 minutes. For a full overview of fees for couples counselling in Calgary, please explore our rates and insurance page.

What issues can couples counselling help with?

Couples counselling offers valuable support for a broad range of relationship challenges. Our sessions provide tools and guidance for enhancing communication, resolving conflicts, and rebuilding trust. Whether dealing with intimacy concerns, communication breakdowns, or trust issues, our counsellors can help you and your partner foster a stronger, more fulfilling connection.

How many sessions are needed for couples counselling?

There is no one answer to how long couples counselling can take. While we believe all our counsellors have the tools to help your situation, your relationship needs time to build trust and learn critical skills together. As a result, we recommend between 8-12 appointments for deeper and lasting change. Those numbers are not based on anything specific to your relationship, as each couple is unique. We notice that couples who spend more time initially investing in marriage guidance counselling in Calgary have better results. However, over time, we continue to see progress for those who come for monthly maintenance sessions and skill leveling up.

Does relationship counselling help?

Yes, couples counselling has been shown to significantly enhance communication, deepen connection, and reinforce the bond between partners. It provides a structured approach to understanding and addressing underlying issues that can otherwise hinder a relationship’s growth.

What does the counselling process involve?

Your journey with One Life begins by contacting our intake coordinator, who will help you select a counsellor suited to your needs.

The counselling process starts with an initial session, after which each partner may have a one-on-one meeting with the counsellor before continuing together. This approach helps couples set relationship goals, develop healthy habits, and improve communication in a supportive, neutral environment.

Which techniques are used during the session?

All of our marriage counsellors and psychologists have specific training for effective couples therapy. We draw on the most well-researched and proven techniques of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and the Gottman Method.

Is it possible to have an online session?

Yes, for your convenience, we offer virtual counselling sessions via video conferencing, enabling you to connect from home or wherever you feel most comfortable. We understand the demands of a busy schedule, and our online sessions make counselling accessible and adaptable to your lifestyle. 

Please note that couples must be located in Alberta to take part in online sessions, as this is the reach of our team’s registration.

Do you work with couples experiencing infidelity?

Yes, we have counsellors who are specifically trained in affair recovery in relationships. Addressing infidelity requires a thoughtful, structured approach to rebuild trust. Our specialists welcome individuals, whether the partner who committed the betrayal or the partner who is hurt from the betrayal, and couples through the complex process of healing. Throughout this journey, we provide compassionate support to work through the trauma and begin the journey of reconnection.

Do you give your couples homework in between appointments?

This completely depends on your preferences. Upon intake, we discuss whether you would like or want to have homework as part of your sessions and what that looks like. We recommend you connect with your therapist to better understand if this option would be best for your situation.

If you choose homework, know that it is fully personalized. Our counsellors may assign readings, exercises, and meaningful rituals for couples to explore together.

Do you teach us communication tools?

Yes. Communication is foundational to relationship repair and growth. Our counsellors provide tools to enhance open, constructive dialogue, supporting couples in integrating these skills to foster understanding and emotional closeness.

Will I ever trust my partner again?

Rebuilding trust is a core goal for many couples in counselling. Trust can be eroded through betrayal, dishonesty, or fractured communication patterns. 

In counselling, we emphasize positive actions and behaviours that rebuild security and help partners work toward genuine, lasting trust.

Is it normal to lose attraction in my relationship?

Many couples find that one or both partners lose attraction over time, and this is certainly a reality that can be explored and improved in couples counselling.  It is very common for couples to grow distant in their relationships at certain points, and loss of attraction and desire can sometimes be the result of that distance. The important piece is acknowledging this, taking steps, and applying effort to rejuvenate that attraction energy.

Is “roommate energy” something we can overcome?

If you and your partner are committed to the couples counselling process, you can work on overcoming many stumbling blocks in your relationship, including roommate energy. Our counsellors offer a range of exercises to foster engagement and help couples replace avoidance with an active, intentional connection.

Why do people cheat?

Infidelity is a complex issue with varied underlying causes, from unmet needs to the allure of new attention. Each relationship is unique, and our counselling sessions help couples explore the “why” behind infidelity, shedding light on the underlying dynamics and providing tools to address these challenges constructively.

Rates and Insurance

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Individual Sessions

(60 minutes)
$220 + GST
Per Session
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Couples Sessions
(Recommended first 4-6 sessions)

(90 minutes)
$330 + GST
Per Session
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Maintenance Couples Counselling
Follow-up or Maintenance

(60 minutes)
$220 + GST
Per Session
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Coaching

(60 minutes)
$220 + GST
Per Session

If being able to use your insurance benefits is an important factor in your selection, our team would be happy to recommend one of our therapists who's services are covered by most insurance plans. Please be sure to confirm in advance if insurance coverage is preferred.

Our standard fees are aligned with the recommended fee schedule from the Psychologist’s Association of Alberta. However, we offer the added value of 60-minute sessions in contrast to the recommended 50-minute session for this fee.

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Improve Your Relationship With Couples Counselling in Calgary!

Get your relationship back on track with couples therapy. With our counselling services, we’ll help you regain improve communication between you and your partner and prevent interactions that have negative outcomes.

During your initial consultation, we’ll match you with a therapist who’s right for you. You’ll learn the strategies and skills you need to help your relationship. Contact One Life Counselling & Coaching today!
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